tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25840048860522296702023-11-15T05:27:12.956-08:00what lola wantsJackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-78520664921974819892016-04-09T01:21:00.001-07:002016-04-18T20:07:32.046-07:00What if?35,000! That is the number of decisions an average person makes a day. Some casual some crucial. <div><br></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b>But when it comes to decision making should we trust our head or our heart?</b></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><br></font></div><div>And I am not talking about standing in line at Starbucks and having to decide whether you want that skinny caramel macchiato grande or venti.</div><div>I am talking about decisions like walking away from a job, or a lover or your home. I am talking about decisions that might change your life forever.</div><div><br></div><div>The scary part about decisions is that every decision is a leap of faith. Even if you think you know where it will lead you, you usually end up realizing that life is not meant to be that predictable. </div><div><br></div><div>There are many people that will tell you not to base your decision making on your emotions. That might be true for some aspects of life, but isn't an emotion the purest instinct we have?</div><div><br></div><div>Sure you shouldn't decide to tell your boss that he can kiss your ass just because you are having a bad day at work and it might not be a wise decision to buy those 900 dollar shoes, despite the fact that you are still recovering from that last pair. </div><div><br></div><div>But there are so many decisions that should solely be based on your emotions. Over thinking every move you make might save you a lot of trouble and heartache, but it will also keep you from living. </div><div><br></div><div>What will happen to the career you have worked so hard for, all the places in the world you wanted to see, the people you wanted to meet and the memories you wanted to make?</div><div><br></div><div>And what about all the things you decided not to say? Like telling him you love him?</div><div><br></div><div>You can never know if the decisions you make will lead you down the road you want them to and you will never know how it will affect the life of the people around you, but nothing is worse than wondering what would have happened if you would have had the guts to step outside your comfort zone.<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div><br></div><div>I guess in the end it is all about deciding how far you are willing to go for what you want, and maybe that is the hardest decision of all...</div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div>Jackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-33092536747888586062015-05-24T17:45:00.003-07:002015-10-13T18:22:40.251-07:00Why he is really a 14 year old girl<style>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">So we have
all heard it, men don´t grow up and well, it is really not their fault. That´s
just how it is.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Usually when
this is said it is in regards to playing video games and living in a nasty ass
bachelor apartment, where even the old piece of pizza under the couch is
thinking about moving out.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">But that can
all be fixed, the real problem with some men and growing up is, that they have
a sensitive ego of a f***ing 14 year old girl! </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Those are
the kind of “men“ that need constant attention. They need attention from their
friends, they need attention from people they work with and please at least
give them one, two, ten girls to flirt with or else their ego starts to
crumble.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">And it
doesn´t even matter if they get that attention from real friends, it could be
anybody. Those ten girls they are flirting with on Facebook, Snapchat or
wherever, they don´t even need to be hot. Damn for all they care it could be an
ugly ass ex they broke up with five years ago, as long as there is a woman out
there telling them how great they are (and yes those ladies are just as bad).</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Those “men“
will cut their friends off in the middle of a great story, because they have a
better story to share. Trying to make themselves look better than others is
what they live for.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Those “men“
need to constantly point out all the great things they think they have done in
their lives and make sure to post every move on Facebook so their 2000 Facebook
friends (that´s right 2000, because they add everybody they have ever bumped
into at the grocery store and call them friends) know where they are going to
be hanging out July 13th 2015. Like they think all the groupies are going to
hop on a bus to go see them. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Those “men“
whether they are attractive or not feel like they are hot shit because remember
they have these ten average looking and obviously confused women complementing
them all the time.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">And once
they do actually start dating a woman, the fun goes on. Don´t you think all of
a sudden they no longer need their fan base.</span></div>
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<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">If you wanna
be with a “man“ like that your gonna have to be his biggest fan. You need to
be the leader of the fan community. You need to be wearing a f***ing shirt
with his name on it. You need to constantly tell him how great he is, how good
he looks, how smart he is, how proud you are to be his girlfriend. Shit, you
are gonna have to fake orgasms so he feels like he´s got some balls.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">But you are
lucky because every relationship is a give and take and these men have plenty
to give. They will give you a headache, they will throw a tantrum for you every
time you dare to<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>say anything that could
be portrayed as the slightest bit of criticism. They will even give you the
honor of watching them texting, posting and snapchatting all night.</span></div>
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<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Shout-out to
all the women out there that stay with “men“ like that, you are screwed.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Those “men“
have nothing going for them. They are losers and they know it. They need
constant attention because that is the only way they can feel like they really
are somebody. They constantly need some kind of women around because they need
to feel wanted. They need to point out how great they are because, well
somebody has to do it. And they can not deal with criticism because deep down
inside, they already know they suck.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">A grown ass
man doesn´t need to prove anything to anybody. That man can take criticism and
live with it. That man doesn´t spend his time flirting with women that are
average, because he is busy making sure the hot girl he is dating is having a
good time. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">A real man
doesn´t waste his energy on making himself look better than other people and he
sure as hell doesn´t feel the need to keep his 2000 “fans“ posted on his tour
dates.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Being an
attention seeking whore is not sexy, no matter how hot you are...</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br></div>
Jackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-53474751027292756512015-05-17T21:41:00.000-07:002015-05-19T22:43:16.158-07:00Keep it real<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">There are
thousands of people out there giving advice on what to do and what not to do
when it comes to a first date.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">What to say
and what not to say, what to wear and what not to wear, where to go and where
not to go, these people even try to give us advice on what to order on a dinner
date and what not to order. You gotta sell yourself, make the perfect first
impression.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Wtf?!?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">I`m gonna
sit there on a Saturday night, in this awesome restaurant reading the menu,
thinking to myself, “Damn, I really want that grilled burger with hot sauce and
fries, but the dating handbook said no messy foods on a first date, so guess
I`m gonna order a Ceasar salad and take tiny little bites, because Got forbid I
bite into that delicious burger and some of the hot sauce runs down my chin or
drips onto that dress that I spent two hours deciding on “. By the time that
Ceasar salad rolls in I am already in massive pain because I am focusing on
sitting perfectly straight. I have no idea what this super hot dude across the
table has been talking about because I am secretly wondering if his back hurts
as bad as mine does.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">But this is
all going really well, I went over my resume with him. Talked about my age,
place of birth, my upbringing, interests, past employers, oh, I mean boyfriends
and so far I think I might get an invitation for a follow up interview.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">No shit,
this is like applying for a job. Where is the fun? When are we gonna talk about
who we really are? How long am I gonna be able to say no to that burger and how
long can I keep my back unnaturally straight?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">This has
nothing to do with getting to know somebody!</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">If you are
the kind of girl that dresses in jeans and Converse, then don´t try to squeeze
into 6 inch heels to play the sexy girl. If you want a burger, then eat that burger
with passion and if some of that sauce runs down your face and that doesn´t
make him smile a little, then he doesn´t know shit about good food. If you are
a crazy bitch that is hard to handle and out of control, then let him know what
he is getting himself into. If you decide to open the ex files, then don´t
sugar coat that story, acting like it was a pretty breakup. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">There is no
need to impress anyone, as a matter of fact, all that will get you is
heartbreak and disappointment. People deserve to know what they are signing up
for!</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">I was recently
on a date with a guy that did not give a shit what I thought about him. Pretty
boy sat there doing his thing ,not trying to impress me for a minute. This dude
has never flipped a page in the dating handbook. He put himself out there with
a take it or leave it kinda attitude. He said what he wanted to say and not
what women might want to hear. No bullshitting around.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">That right
there was impressive...</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
Jackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-5024003551873950752015-05-12T15:58:00.002-07:002015-05-12T16:08:01.946-07:00Heat it up!<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">“Can you
cook?“, “Do you like to cook?“, “How good can you cook?“.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">When you
meet a guy and you are going through the whole job interview like process of
gettin to know each other at some point most of the men are going to ask you
this question.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Either
because he is the kind of guy, who loves to cook and so enjoys trying out new
recipes with his lady (which I hate to say is not necessarily the manliest
thing on earth), or it is because he really feels like he needs to make sure that
in case things get serious, he won´t have to starve to death.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">But
seriously, is that so important to know when you first start going out with
someone?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">So what if I
don´t like to cook? Is that a deal breaker? You are a single guy that lives
alone and so far you actually managed to take in your 2000 something calories a
day without having somebody around to feed you.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Every couple
can survive just fine without having a chef on board. So when heating up the
frozen dinners and cooking pasta get´s boring, then you can go enjoy some
nasty, greasy fast food together or you can actually be a real old school
gentleman and take her out on a fancy, I will hold the door and pull the chair
out for you kinda dinner.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">When it
comes to a womens role are we really still so 1900s?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">I mean not
like women sit there on the first or second date asking, “So, do you plan on
building us a house of sticks and straw so we can get our </span><span class="sac"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">medieval</span></span><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> <span class="sac">fairy
tale</span></span><span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";"> going?“.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">How about
asking what our favorite color is, so on the next date you can surprise us with
some f***ing flowers in that color? How about asking what our favorite band is,
so you can get some tickets and show a girl a good time?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Or how about
totally living life on the edge and <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>just
simply taking the risk tif falling <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in
love with a woman that might not like to cook?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">You sure as
hell won´t be seeing any<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Beef Wellington
on the dinner table any time soon and no Eggs Benedict in bed every Sunday, but
isn´t it way better if she sticks a pizza in the offen and spends the rest of
the evening hanging out with you.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Instead of
wanting her to stand in the kitchen, you should be taking her to the bedroom...</span></div>
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Jackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-31975949192961651342015-05-03T18:03:00.002-07:002015-05-04T18:15:36.203-07:00Unfriend<style>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">“Let´s stay
friends!“...I can´t help it, but I have to throw up in my mouth every time I
hear people say that, or talk about how they are still great friends with their
exes.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">NO, let´s
totally not stay friends. Why would you want to stay friends? A relationship is
80 percent a friendship and 20 percent I want to push you against the wall and
have sex with you.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Friends
laugh about the same things, they hate the same people just because if one
person hates somebody the other one automatically does too. Friends don´t judge
you, they judge other people with you. Friends believe in you and give you the
ability to believe in yourself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Real
friends will always be there for you, they never get tired of listening to your
shit, they are just as wild and crazy as you and if you were to show up in front
of their door with a dead body, they would not ask any questions, grab a shovel
and follow you.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">If your
relationship is built on a friendship like that and you still occasionally push
each other against the wall, then you would stay together.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">So why act
like you can be friends with somebody that you stopped being friends with in
your relationship.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">I´m not saying
walk past him like you don´t know him and if you have kids together or
financial ties, then you totally need to work together. But that has nothing to
do with friendship, that just means having your shit together. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Most of the
time when a man wants to stay friends with his ex, he was the one that was
dumped and either he is just a super sensitive guy that really has a hard time
getting over her, or he is suffering from a bad case of narcissism and just can
not believe that there is a woman that does not want to be with him, so he feels
the need to stay friends just to see how she is doing and prove to her that his
life is great without her, hoping that she will come crawling back to him. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">And there
are plenty of women out there that stay friends with their exes, because they
just desperately need attention from men (which a decent looking woman can get
on every street corner) .They think if their narcissistic ex likes their pics
on Facebook or sends them a text once in a blue moon, that must mean that he is
still in love. When in all reality he is just f***ing bored out of is mind and
he knows that you are stupid enough to entertain him.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">So while you
are still bullshitting around with your ex in the gray zone, you could be
having a new guy pushing you against the wall....</span></div>
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Jackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-77847285365415720292015-04-29T21:22:00.004-07:002015-04-29T21:22:41.550-07:00Don´t be a “chill girl“
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Like it is
not hard enough for a woman to just be herself, nowadays there are labels. The
“good girl“,the “crazy bitch“ and now a younger sibling has been born, the
“chill girl“.</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt;">For the
ladies out there that have an opinion and don´t take shit from anyone, welcome
to my group, the “crazy bitches“. For all the “chill girls“ out there, wtf is
wrong with you? </span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Chill means
you don’t fight back. Chill means all guys will want to hang with you, and all
the girls aren’t threatened by you. Chill can take it, but is too passive to
dish it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Those who
want to earn that label don´t have <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>to do
anything, all they need to remember is to chill, look pretty and smile.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Isn´t that
precious, that is so drama free, so carefree, so peaceful and so f***ing
boring!</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Who wants
to be around somebody that doesn´t give a shit about anything? Hello, would you
please stop chilling and start living! </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Nothing wrong with being laid back, but these girls that say
“I just go with the flow“, what does that even mean. Sounds like a slogan
straight out of a tampon commercial to me.</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Don´t you have questions? Where is the flow coming from,
where is it going, do I want to go there and who is on the flow with me?</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">And all these beautiful things you miss out on, like making
decisions, being right, being wrong, having arguments and sarcasm.</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">How can you live without the beauty of sarcasm. Without
sarcasm how would you politely tell somebody, who is not smart enough to
understand, that he sucks at life?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Sarcasm
kicks your inner girl off her precious pony and lets the women in you hop on to
the high horse. And truth be told: She is mean, she is ugly, she is a
judgmental bitch and she is f***ing hilarious.</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Chill girls
are always going to be girls, nobody is ever going to call them chill women,
because a woman doesn´t blow smoke up your ass all day, she doesn´t have the
patience to sugar coat everything for you, just to make you feel better about
your life.</span><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Chill girls
can be cute all they want, but nobody is going to remember them. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
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<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">The crazy
bitches, those are the ones you will never forget...</span></div>
Jackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-17479652752536378712015-04-26T19:49:00.002-07:002015-04-27T05:33:23.797-07:00Dear Mr. Web<div class="MsoNormal">
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--</style><span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">“Are
you free tonight, or will it cost me?“, I will never forget sitting at the bar
on a Friday night hearing the guy next to me ask me this.</span>
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<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">And
this is just one example for many bad, bad pick up lines I have heard. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">You
really wonder if that has ever worked out. It´s like “Yes dude, it might cost
you your balls if you don´t get a move on fast“.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">What
in the world happened to those men that actually put some effort into it?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">The
other day I had lunch at Panera Bread (so yummy) and I was sitting there with
my aunt and her two daughters, when this guy walks up to the table, looks at me
and says “I just have to tell you, that I think you are very beautiful“. Aww,
now that took some balls, to stand in front of four women in the middle of a
restaurant and say that. Ok, I´ll admit this time all he got out of it was a
“That is sweet, thank you so much“, but I am sure that could work out for him
in the future. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Meeting
people has changed over the years. Just like everything else, we do it online.
Awesome isn´t it? You can meet your future husband while you are sitting on
your couch. You don´t even have to leave the house anymore and you can still
meet 10, 20, 30 guys a week. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">But
is it really that great? </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">There
is a dating website for every taste, age, preference out there. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>First you got to give them details about
yourself. How old, race, gender, relationship status (hello, I hope you are
single), where do you live, interests, kids, no kids, how do you look, are you
educated, do you smoke (oh, oh I´m out) and the list goes on and on. Then after
you talked about yourself it is all about what you are you looking for. Same
shit different gender.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Then
you get a list of people that would just be a perfect match for you. Yay, Brad,
36, works in marketing, makes 120 k a year, likes dogs and the outdoors, no
kids, never married and luckily a variety of about 6 pictures to look at. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Really,
is that really how I want to fall in love?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Let´s
just say you go to dinner with Brad, because he is just such a good match. WTF
are we going to talk about? I don´t need to ask any questions, because your
internet dating profile already tells me everything I need to know and the online
program that matched us said we are going to have a great, happy life together
so let´s get on it.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">I
don´t want to date a male version of myself, I want somebody who can show me a
new world, a different way of living, I want somebody I can have some real
arguments with, because we are not always of the same opinion. Everything else
is just a little too boring and predictable for my taste.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">But
even if you decide not to do the online dating thing, then there is still a
bunch of other social media like Facebook for instance.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">So
there you are with your average 500 something friends and not the slightest
intention to meet anybody new here. But when you check your inbox, there they
are, complete strangers saying “Hello“, “Hey“, “Hi“, followed by “Hi
beautiful“, “Hello pretty lady“. Maybe it´s me, but why would you do that? If
you are going to send a complete stranger a message on Facebook, could you at
least come up with more than two words. What do you think women are going to
write back? “Hi handsome, so happy somebody finally found me“? </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">But
I gotta give it to you guys, there are men that come up with more than two
words. Like “Hi, I looked at your profile and you are very beautiful“. Oh, this
is exciting you actually have a whole line to read. Still the same meaning as
“Hi beautiful“ but at least this guy took the time to build a sentence. That is
why these guys are also known as the “copy/paste men“. Coming up with these
words took a good amount of work so you can´t really expect them to come up
with something new for every girl. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">And
last but not least my favorite , the “pokers“ (no, this is not really a word).
These guys don´t have anything to say at all, but that is ok because they will
just “poke“ you.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Are
you shitting me? If you would see me walking down the street or dancing in a
club, would you just come over and poke me to get my attention? I don´t think
so. Truth is 99% of the men that contact you on the internet would not have the
balls to actually initiate any kind of contact if they would see you in real
life. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Don´t
get me wrong, sure there are some nice guys out there, that you can go have
dinner with, or date, or spend the rest of your life with even though you met them
online, but most of the time it is not very sexy.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Are
you really that lonely, that you have to go looking for somebody? I mean why
not enjoy being single till you just happen to meet somebody. Those poor souls on
the internet that are desperately trying to find somebody are almost as sad to
watch as the guys that run back to one of their long time exes, just because
they need somebody around, and theses women welcome them back with open arms
after years of being separated because they are just as desperate. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Come
to think about it, maybe that guy in the bar wasn´t so bad after all...</span></div>
Jackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-54135966535885280602015-04-23T22:17:00.004-07:002016-03-31T20:45:09.466-07:00The art of letting go<style>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">When you
meet somebody and fall in love, it feels like the world is standing still. A
person that you didn´t even know existed walks into your life and after a while
of being together, you don´t even remember what life was like without him. It
is like you found something that you didn´t even know was missing. This is
probably one of the most beautiful feeling in the world and at the same time it
is so damn scary. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Letting
somebody into your life means making yourself vulnerable. It means giving your
all and just trusting that you will not get hurt. Trusting that this man you
are madly in love with for everything he is, will never change. That he will
always love you the same no matter what and that you can give all that back.
You hope that this special “us against the world“ thing will last. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">But what if
it doesn´t?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What if we change? What if
everything changes?</span></div>
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<br></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">If it is not
passionate, inconvenient, consuming, can´t live without the other person kind
of love, then isn´t it a waste of time? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Every couple
goes through rough times. Life is always going to come up with some new idea of
making shit complicated. But if you are still the same people you were when you
fell in love, then that is not going to make you fall apart, or it will make
you fall apart only to realize how much you need to fall back together. If two
people really want to be togehter, then they will always find a way.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">But when you
look at somebody and he is not the same person you fell in love with anymore,
then it is hard to hold on.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">If you truly
loved this person, breaking up is not going to be pretty, even if you are the
one leaving.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">It means
that “us against the world“ is now “you against the world“. It means being prepared
for all these questions that friends and family are going to ask. It means saying
goodbye to the person that you thought you were always going to be with.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">This shit
hurts. You are stuck with all these great memories of who you used to be. Out
of nowhere you will remember all these beautiful moments you had.. The way you
used to watch movies all night and fall asleep on the couch together. The way
you used to try to stay awake and wait for him to come home from work just to
end your day with him. They crazy shit you laughed about. How happy it made you
to see him smile. The way he said “I love you“ and all the times you just
looked at him and had to smile because you just felt like the luckiest person
in the world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">You miss the
way it felt laying your head on his chest and feeling like you are home. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">I gotta be
honest, it is pretty sad and pretty pathetic and luckily at some point anger
takes over and damn that part of the break up is intense. There you go
remembering all the shit that went wrong. All the nasty things that were said,
all the fights. You think “Did I really come this far, just to find out that
this is not it“? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>No more crying, no more
hoping, no more missing. You are just way to busy being angry.</span></div>
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<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">But all that
passes. There comes this perfect moment were you can finally see the big
picture. Were you stop with all the woulda, coulda, shouda. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">At some
point all the good memories you have no longer make you sad and all the bad
memories no longer make you angry. Once in a while you will hear a song that
reminds you of him, or you will watch a movie that you watched together or you
find something that he gave to you and you will remember him for who he was
when you were head over heels in love.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">That is the
point where you don´t feel like you are being punched in the stomach every time
somebody says “Oh, but you were such a great couple“.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now you can smile and say “That´s right, we
were one hell of a couple“. </span></div>
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<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Every break
up changes you a little bit. It sets the standards a little higher for the next
guy and it makes you realize that you are never going to settle for
anything less than what you want.</span></div>
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<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Somebody
once told me, that I am a dreamer, that I am crazy for wanting to be with
somebody who would do anything for love because that is just not rational. </span></div>
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<br></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="tab-stops: 308.0pt;">
<span style="font-family: "American Typewriter";">Maybe
that is true, but maybe love is not meant to be rational. Love is a mess, it turns
your life upside down, its unpredictable. That is the beauty of it and that is
why I would always do it all over again...</span></div>
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Jackiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444272450535451539noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2584004886052229670.post-1582781295554062302015-04-20T08:35:00.000-07:002015-04-20T08:35:20.285-07:005 reasons my ass...
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">I don´t know
about you, but every time I log onto Facebook I see at least one of my friends
sharing the “5 reasons marriage just doesn´t work out anymore” story, written
by a divorced man that had been married for three years.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And all the separated and divorced people out
there are reading it like “Yea totally, that is so what happened, it is not my
fault my marriage went to shit, there are all these modern circumstances that
led to this divorce and well, I really had no control over it”. While the
married people are reading it going “ Oh, oh the 21th century way of life is
sneaking up on our marriage, I hope we won´t be one of the 1.2 million people
getting a divorce this year”.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">These are the reasons he gives us: </span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-fareast-font-family: "American Typewriter";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Sex becomes
almost nonexistent.</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-fareast-font-family: "American Typewriter";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Finances cripple
us.</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-fareast-font-family: "American Typewriter";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">We are too
connected to social media.</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;">
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-fareast-font-family: "American Typewriter";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Our
desire for attention outweighs our desire to be loved.</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";"></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-fareast-font-family: "American Typewriter";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Social
media just invited a few thousand people into bed with you. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";"></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Seriously? </span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Those are
supposed to be the reasons why Grandma and Grandpa were married 50 years and we
can´t make it past 5?</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">So sex becomes
almost nonexistent. Well, this is written by a man saying that all these images
of uber sexy people out there give us these unrealistic expectations of our
partner and knowing that there are these extremely hot people kinda makes us
not want to have sex with the same average looking person more than once a
week. Dude, if the women you are dating is not hot, then don´t ask her to marry
you. Do men think they are going to marry a woman that looks like shit and then
one day wake up to her looking like a Victoria´s Secret model?</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">It doesn´t matter
whether you are a man or a woman, if you are in love and passionate about each other
you will want to have sex more than once a week. Even though I hate to think
that this was Grandma and Grandpa´s secret to a happy marriage. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Finances cripple
us. What, we have to pay for our life? Good for all these generationes before
us, not a care in the world. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">This is such
bullshit!</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Education, food,
a house, clothes, cars, no shit life is expensive. Suck it up and get over it. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Oh, and by the
way there is this one feeling in life that doen´t cost you a damn thing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It´s called love.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">We are too
connected to social media. Now this is a good one. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">So we make
dinner reservations over an app and we talk to our spouses over text. That is
the real problem here. Not the flirting and cheating. Not the secretly going
behind our partners back. Nope, the real problems are our apps. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Where I come
from there is nothing wrong with spending your alone time on your phone making
dinner reservation, sending emails or texting your spouse. And hey, who doesn´t
love getting a bunch of cute texts with emojis blowing kisses. If an app can
make your life easier then that sounds like a plan to me. There is only one
rule, once you are spending time with your spouse the phone is put aside. If
your wife doesn´t understand that she is an ass. If you don´t, then you are an
ass. Oh and Grandma and Grandpa didn´t have all this fancy shit to make their
lives easier. They actually had to spend time writing letters and going to
restaurants and still had enough time to love each other. Funny how that works.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Our desire for
attention </span><span style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">outweighs</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";"> our desire to be loved. So what this is about is that
we need other peoples attention on social media more than we need to be loved
by the person in front of us. Love this one! </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Well absolutely,
if you are with a narcissistic<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b>person
that has the mind of a 12 year old then yes. And sure there are people out there
that feel like their 2000 Facebook friends should take great interest in the
fact that they are having a headache today. But a grown ass person would be
more thankful for their partner getting them an Asprin and cuddling up next to
them on the couch, then having people comment on their status..</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">And last but not
least. Social Media just invited a thousand people into bed with you. I see, so
social media does that. That is not you posting your every move on Facebook and
Twitter. Social media does that for you now. Must be one of them crazy updates
I haven´t installed yet.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">The truth, is
the only thing people know about you and your relationship is what you want
them to know. If every fight, every make up sex ( even though we just learned
that married couples don´t have sex), is posted on your account, then yea sure
you invite them all into your bed. But if you have a great marriage who cares.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">Grandma and
Grandpa didn´t stay together because life was easier back then. They stayed
together because they chose to fall in love with each other over and over
again. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "American Typewriter"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Apple Chancery";">So for Christ´s
sake, get out there, fall in love, get married, make mistakes…and if it doesn´t
last forever then take the blame and move on. </span></div>
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